The harmony of the household becomes the dream of all married couples. Harmony brings peace of life in the family so that the household is sustainable until the end of life. Early on the household harmony was taught in the Javanese bride ceremony. This naturalistic qualitative study was conducted to reveal the teachings of household harmony found in the Javanese bride Javanese ceremonies. Data acquisition is done by participant observation and in-depth interviews. The validity of the data by triangulation is sharpened by the extension of repeated participation and study. The results of the study show that to achieve a harmonious family, prerequisites and measures of harmony are needed. The prerequisites of the hamonis family (1) marriage get the blessing of both parents, (2) escape from sengkala (life barriers due to negative energy in the body), (3) love each other, (4) unite creativity, taste, and intention, (5) official bond (marriage). While the act of harmony in the household (1) the husband can be a good leader for his wife, (2) the wife is devoted to the husband, (3) compact in togetherness, (4) the husband suffices the family's life, (5) the wife receives a living from the husband sincerely, (6) the wife is ready to carry out the commands and advice of the husband, (7) all say and attitude is based on a clear heart so that it always pleases the husband and wife, (8) likes to share together (charity).